Online scam terminology has gotten complicated with all the overlapping terms and evolving tactics flying around. As someone who’s studied these threats and helped people recover from them, I learned everything there is to know about “fishing” in chat contexts—what it means, how it works, and how to protect yourself. Today, I will share it all with you.
What “Fishing” in Chat Actually Means
Probably should have led with this section, honestly. “Fishing” in chat contexts (sometimes spelled “phishing” with a ‘ph’) refers to scammers trying to extract personal information, passwords, or financial details through direct conversation. Unlike traditional phishing emails that blast thousands of people, chat fishing is interactive and targeted.
Someone starts a conversation that seems innocent—maybe on social media, a dating app, or a gaming platform. They build rapport, gain your trust, then gradually steer the conversation toward getting information they can use against you.
How It Actually Works
That’s what makes chat fishing insidious—it exploits normal human social behavior.
The scammer might pose as:
- A customer service rep needing to “verify your account”
- A romantic interest who needs “help” with a financial problem
- A recruiter with an “amazing job opportunity” requiring your SSN upfront
- A new friend who shares a link that “you’ll love”
They’re patient. They might chat casually for days or weeks before asking for anything. By then, you’ve lowered your guard.
Where It Happens
Anywhere people chat: social media DMs, dating apps (huge target), gaming platforms, Discord servers, LinkedIn messages, even support chats that might be spoofed. The more casual and social the platform, the more relaxed people are—and the more vulnerable.
What They’re After
- Passwords and login credentials
- Credit card or bank information
- Social Security numbers
- Photos they can use for blackmail
- Access to install malware through “helpful” links
How to Protect Yourself
Be suspicious of anyone you don’t know who contacts you first—especially if they’re attractive, offering opportunities, or have a problem only you can solve. Verify identities independently before sharing anything personal. Never share financial info, passwords, or sensitive documents through chat. If something feels off, trust that instinct.
Real companies don’t ask for passwords in chat. Real romantic interests don’t need money wired. Real job offers don’t require your SSN before an interview. If it seems too good or too urgent, it’s probably neither.
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